Why "Moral Values" are so important ?
Why "Moral Values" are so important ?
For a long time, parents have not been giving proper time to their children, till yet. Our parents always used to say, that we are not following the moral values of our life; not following our family traditions values and cultural activities. Either, we have no time or we can say, we are not taking any interest to teach our children and this mistake we often seen, in our society.
in our society the real meaning of moral values is, building block of our life. Moral value refers to set a principle that guide an individual on how to evaluate between right and wrong. As a human being, we have to follow some rules of the nature's, these rules help us to decide. what is right and what is wrong. Rules are our life limit; hence it should be strong enough and we should strictly follow them.
Moral Values in current time: -
We often see that kids are directly disobeying their parents, in front of anyone. it has become a fashion that they don't like their father, mother, uncle means they don't take interest in their parents, it's pretty. Often daughter in law or son in law, insults the Mom Dad and senior relatives.
Convince to adopt the Moral Values: -
- Those people are understanding the moral values in time.
“Wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it”
“Right is right, even if no one
is doing it”
“If you are focus on results you will never change.”
“If you focus on change, you will get result”
Spend time with your children, and motive them: - In childhood of our kids we provide our kids (in the age of 1- or 2-years) Mobile, Tab, Headphone, Laptop etc.
in beginning definitely they will get enjoy it due to its slide activities, videos, pictures and sounds but slowly child deprive with the parent and they become used to be these things. Even we can't get back those things with they are holding in their hands.animated ideological
story, videos story-based movies regarding moral values. Scolled them whenever
they are doing wrong, teach them, and most important thing don’t provide them
in underage expensive electronic gadgets are anything else.
Let's talk about today's youth and old age person’s thought: - From what I have said above, you
must have understood
that the above-mentioned values are largely due to the ‘abolish’ of the moral
values in our today society. But by counting the mistakes of our elders, our
mistakes do not get reduced. If they have made even minor flaws or mistakes, nevertheless
we should respect them by overclocking them and always include them in each of
our life activity and planning.
Moral Values regarding our parent: - Parents, grandparents, uncle, aunt, etc. give full respect to all people. On seeing this, your children will also learn the same things, from you and you will be followed and respect by them.
The child remains in the mother's womb for 9 months, when she is somewhat self-reliant, a mother does it for her child from around 9 to 10 years of their age. Whatever she thinks regarding your welfare, that no one can do like that even God in this world. In our whole life the place of Mom and Dad, comes before even God. Do you know when you Did not know, when you not even understand your own good and bad things and could not even protect yourself, means from birth till 5 years, only mother(parent) used to stand against every grief and suffering as a wall. Should humans even look at the animal, many times we have seen that a deer or a cow to protect their child from a lion, they attack. So carefully think over it those parents, who have done (sacrifices) so much for you, so it is also your duty that you take full care of them and respect them in the end of their life.
As age increases
their mind and body gradually getting older and older in such a situation, we
should keep such behavior that they do not realize these shortcomings at all
till you assimilate the moral value. So how will you make your children to
follow this,
In the perspective of society - First of all, remove negative thinking
completely from your mind. There is both, a good and an evil, in every person.
Always see his goodness and ‘remember that’ it will make your mind towards that
person always clean and its Per negative thinking relevant to your
friend, will not take birth.
Adopt Moral Value in
your blood: - Respecting the
elders should love the little ones, always be ready to help everyone. The poor
should also get helped by you, according to your ability. If the poor are very
good scorer in academics, then definitely by you or anyone, should help them.
One must take time to go to the old age home, orphan age homes and spend time
with them, share their sorrows motive them. If in this time if I discuss over each point
of Moral values, then this topic will never be finished in this space.
Even if it is a matter of tough-job, helplessness and professionalism. Always be compulsive, but take time out of it too. One more important thing whenever you give enough time to your wife, during that time-duration, keep your other tasks, almost away from you, until there is too much emergency. Several times that Husband and Wife, get lost their world with their mobiles.
At the same time, due to these
reasons, between them, gradually developed, firstly mental-distance then physical
-distance. If it becomes difficult to bear each other, then things reach up to the
Divorce.
Regarding your
friends: - I would also like to
say some things about friends as well. You should not always keep your
temperament towards your friends the same. You should not break your friendship,
due to any one’s backbiting, even if espouse advised nevertheless think deeply
then go ahead, it shouldn’t be blind step. Only good habits and touching incidences
of your friend, should be kept in your heart and mind. With respect by you, even
during the breaking period of your friendship, remembering the good moments of
your friend, during the period be clear your mind towards him, you Should be
maintained in such an adverse situation, his personal things should not be made
public by you, anger.
Regarding current
society: - I mean if you
understand properly the moral values, and Let's understand the Moral Values to
the people too and Encourage the people to follow this path, with honesty.
Simultaneously, Make the children cultured. This will give you a strange inner
happiness in all these settlements, which cannot be described in words, this
happiness cannot be attained by any worldly pleasure if you have the moral
values of the serene mind But if you are a cultured person, your soul will
always be in pure and pure and says that if your soul is pure then the
supernatural dominance of that soul goes on growing every moment and your face
will shine (glow) with this inner beauty, (the real beauty).
Inner beauty is the first step of real lifestyle: - If you are a person of simple Swami, truthful coworker, benevolent obedient, fair, clean and pure, then you will never need to apply any makeup
on your face. The face will glow in radiance from afar, because the
inner beauty definitely reflects the face If you really want to look handsome
or beautiful then first be a nice person with internal beauty and for it you will
have to adopt Moral-Values by heart. Now you must have understood that if you
adopt Moral Value in your life, then assume that you have got 90% success. Success
will come towards you automatically. The sharp and radiant face will fascinate (without
making any additional efforts) people and this attraction is always the first
step to success in any field, that is, you live a successful social and
professional life, as well as continuously with spiritual progress stay
connected
If you do not change your Moral Value without responding to the behavior of your wife/husband. If you do not behave the opposite (bad), whether spouse’s worst behaving, even you do continue with your all responsibility by taking care, then there will never be a Divorce, even he/she will be ashamed on her/his bad behavior. If your spouse is unnecessarily extremely angry, and badly over reacting at you, and shouting at you, at the same time you have to keep calm, either side is excited, then the other will be calm, if it happens then within 5 minutes, the whole dispute will stop at once. Don't get excited or angry in response. Answer your own deeds. He continues to discharge your responsibility towards her, even if it does not get any value from it, but you will see your actions to be highly continuous. Why should there not be water in the fire of repentance? In response to the wrong behavior of the partner, you do not drop your basic level and keep your good behavior in the same manner, then what will be the result of this, you will yourself send me and tell me that the result was totally positive and in your favor.
“If you really want to look elegant for that, inner beauty is must then secondly one should go towards other things like, gym, parlor, etc.
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